It leaves no doubt in the reader’s mind that these two people—the hero and heroine—belong together for all time.  It leaves us feeling good, perhaps tearfully so.  It lets us believe that despite the obstacles, true love prevails.

I get that and though writing is work, endings tend to be organic and grow out of the story.

But I’ve come to an ending that I have grappled with for a week—how do I say goodbye to the Sisterhood of the Jaunty Quills blog and its readers, some who have followed me all over the web?  Even harder, how do I part with the women who have become my virtual sisters?

Not easily, even though it was my choice to leave the Jaunty Quills. I was a fan of the Jaunty Quills from its start.  When I was asked to join them, I was elated.  I’m still proud to be a Quill on my last blog. But since Christmas it’s been a chore for me to keep up my obligation and promise to give you, the reader, an interesting blog.

My schedule is so crammed with a day job, writing and life that I knew I had to trim anything that stole time from my own writing obligations and from my personal life.  Regular blogging was one of the things that I realized must go.

Thanks to the readers for following me.  I deeply appreciate you and hope to keep in contact, whether on my website blog or Facebook.  My next book from Harlequin, Taking Back What He’s Owed, will release in November.

To my sister Quills—Elise, Catherine, Cindy, Emily, Katherine, Kristan, Nancy, Robyn, Shana, and Terri.  I wish you all the success and happiness in the world and I hope our paths cross many times the future.  You guys are the very best!

Hugs to all,

Janette 

Of course, I never make it easy on my characters.  I heap internal conflicts on them, mix it with a good does of lust and toss them into a world of emotional chaos.  I don’t give them easy avenues out – they have to stick together to the bitter end, dragging their baggage through mud with the hope both will recognize that they complete each other – that they can have true love after they’ve lightened their burdens by tossing away the old beliefs and fears that have chained their hearts all this time.

From one who’s been in that dark camp for too long, I know it isn’t easy to break out.  Opening your heart to possible hurt again is terrifying.  Experiencing only conditional love – the pat on the head, you done good feeling – is a poor substitute for finding somebody who loves and accepts you for who you are, who doesn’t judge, doesn’t try to change you.

Typically my heroines are similar to me – looking for the real thing but just haven’t found The One.  They aren’t going to settle for conditional love – it’s all or nothing for them.

My heroes tend to be jaded.  They either don’t believe in love, have been burned to a crisp by the emotion before and avoid it now, or just don’t know what love is.

And really, what is love?

That’s a question I’ve asked myself a lot of times.

Love is invisible.  Felt not seen.  Elusive.  The precious gem to find amid a sea of sand.

True love is unconditional.  That’s the love that fills us, warms us, makes us whole.  Unconditional love completes us.

It is as much the giving of deep emotional support as much as it is receiving the same from that someone special. It’s the companionable silence of two hearts watching the same sun set and feeling happy to share such a moment together.

Each time I start writing a new story, I face the challenge of finding the right way to show how two people can find real love and finally experience that blissful happiness that comes out of such a deep abiding love.  I love writing about their journey as they find a way to cast off their fears and embrace a new tomorrow with that one special love.  And when I’m not writing them, I love reading about them.  Because really, what’s more satisfying than watching two people fall in love?

Why do you read romances?  What made you know your wife or husband or lover was the real love to last for all time?

It was a hectic, fantastic week that thrilled and exhausted me.  I started my professional stint with the Western Reader workshop where all the western authors participating gave out totes to everyone attending.  We had cover models on hand and line dancing, gave out grand prizes and had a great time overall.  I met new readers while reuniting with dear ones, and gave away notepads, pens, trading cards and books.  Nothing was left after the event but smiles.

My second big event was the Harlequin Power and Passion series reader event where everyone attending received bags of goodies and books.  Games were played with the winners getting bags of books.  Authors schmoozed and signed autographs with readers, booksellers and librarians from around the world.  Again, I gave away notepads and more books.   Harlequin had this poster of my latest book printed for the event and for me to keep.  Lovely.

The week ended on Saturday with the Giant Book signing that is also open to the public.  Imagine a ballroom filled with tables of authors and thousands of readers and fans streaming by.  The noise level is intense while readers scramble to get autographs from favorite authors.  Cover models strolled among them for photo opportunities as well.

I came home with tired feet and fond memories.  Many readers faithfully attend this convention every year, and we get new readers from every place the convention is held.  Next year RT Convention will be at the Sheraton Crown Center in Kansas City.

So what about you?  Have you attended this or another writing convention before? Think about coming, even if it’s just to the public book signing.  I’ll be there!

It’s not that I don’t love being in or near the water.  I just dread the trying on swimsuits and freak in a dressing room because every suit revealed way too more of me that I wanted to show.  Ever.  Plus do they have to use the worst mirrors ever in dressing rooms?  Do they get a deal from fun house mirrors or something?

This year I  took the plunge and went shopping for a swimsuit, mainly because the Sodbuster (the new man in my life) spends a good deal of summer  leisure time on the water, and the sun and chlorine had wrecked the old suit I felt comfortable wearing.

The good news is there are plenty of styles available, from string bikinis to one piece to swim dresses.  The trouble was deciding what I wanted and then finding something to fit.

One thing I’ve learned over the years is price doesn’t necessarily mean you’re getting a quality suit.  I stick with a noted brand because those do tend to last.  Also, I ruled out me in a bikini or monokini or any thing bearing a resemblance to either.  Even if I had ever looked good more naked than clothed, wearing one is just not me.

Second I was tired of a one piece and wanted something different, but not so different as a swim dress.  That has too much of an old Victorian feel to it, plus I looked frumpy in one.  Maybe if I added a hat?  Kidding.  The swim dress has it’s place but it’s just not me.

I went for a tankini style and found two that 1) fit and 2) were becoming on my body.  Also I opted for boy shorts over the very brief bikini bottoms or the  swim skirt.   And because I am a dirt magnet, I chose something with colorful tops and black bottoms instead of all white.

Now that I’ve taken the plunge and bought two swimsuits, I am very relieved and a bit excited to show them off.  Well, at least to one special someone in my life.

What about you?  Most of us dread the swimsuit buying ordeal, but what’s your reason?  Have you opted to buy new this year?  Change your style?

March breezed in like a lamb with warm winds, sunny days and above normal temps.  Forget jackets — we were edging into shorts and tank weather.

Everything was popping through the ground in celebration. Daffodils, crocus, hyacinths and tulips laid a colorful carpet in yards, including my own.

Magnolia trees bloomed through their cycle without getting the typical freeze that turned the flowers brown, as did the redbuds, peach and Bradford pears.  Everywhere you look is beauty.

But I can’t help thinking the payback for this great weather is going to bite us hard one day.  With warmer temps come the increase in storms, and in much of the US that means tornadoes.

How’s spring shaping up in your world?  Are you anxious to plant a garden or flowers?  Laze by the pool or beach with a good book?

I’m one of those people who feel comfortable having insurance:  home, car, health.  I’ve learned the hard way (via a burglary) that specific insurance would have at least reimbursed me for the jewelry stolen.  A lesson hard learned and one I will protect against when I have good jewelry as opposed to the costume stuff I’ve been wearing.

There’s travel insurance that many buy.  I never have but there may come a time.  You can insure your golf game, your wedding, and in some countries, insurance against kidnapping and ransom.

I certainly don’t have anything bizarre to insure, yet I will admit to being surprised when my day job offered pet insurance.  I signed up for it.  It’s not costly and having it eases my mind.  The Pound Puppy and I walk, and I am concerned about people who don’t have control of a dog that can be vicious, and of drivers with their heads everywhere but on the road.

Will I use it?  Hopefully never, but it’s there just in case.

Hmm, wonder if I can insure my muse?

What about you?  Heard of any outlandish body part insured by a star?  Do you have rider insurance or extras that are beyond the old routine ones?

The focus was on how men and women wish to spend their hard earned cash. It should come as no shocker that the sexes don’t have the same wants save one similarity. After all isn’t it well known that men and women argue over how the other wastes money?

Here’s the top five for women. After looking at my spending habits the past year, I hit every one of these.

1) Shopping. I’m a professed gatherer (note that is not the same as my mother’s hoarding.)  Finding good deals is a hobby of mine and to my way of thinking that makes me fairly savvy handling money. Plus shopping for sales is just plain fun.

2) Beauty. I’m not big on make up or following the latest fashions, but I don’t want to look dated either. I do spend money to nourish and tone my skin. As for clothes, I try to strike a balance between what’s in style and classic.

3) Health and Fitness. I do eat healthy and good foods costs more. Though I don’t belong to a gym, I own equipment and exercise daily.

4) Love/Online Dating. Raising hand here to being one of those women who spent money on online dating and/or a guy. Since my online “dates” didn’t pan out,  it could be argued I wasted money. I’ll also admit that I am one of those women who like buying things for my guy.

5) Home Furnishings. It gives me pleasure to enjoy the furniture and other niceties I’ve bought for my home. I’m also one of those who “saves up” for those big projects, like a total remodeling of the family room and kitchen.

So what do guys spend money on? Take a look at their top five.

1. Investments. Guys typically funnel their money into stocks/bonds, property or art.

2. Entertainment. A guy and his amazing stereo system, big screen TV or movie room. Need we say more?

3. On Women/Love/Online Dating. The only common spending habits for the sexes is online, which tells me they do want/need us. They’ll also spend a whole lot more on dinner out than I would.

4. Hobbies and Sports.   Guys might be the hunters of the species, but they can and do obsess about their collections. As for sports–take a guy to Cabela’s or Dick’s and watch them drool.

5. Betting and Gambling Guys like to wager. It’s an adrenaline rush to push the odds and win.

What about you and your guy? How does your spending habits stack up against the top five for both sexes?

For me, a combination of yoga, aerobic and core exercises worked the best. I haven’t lost a lot of weight but I’ve honed off inches. The best part of all is that I feel stronger, my clothes fit better and I no longer have those old aches and pains.

Exercising every day isn’t always feasible, so I adopted some mini sessions I can do at work at my desk, either at a long break or done in short bursts. I’ve found that I’ll often do them just to ease stress and loosen my muscles.

Here are my five favorites.

• Sitting straight in your chair:
• Try to touch your shoulder blades together. Feel the pull as you hold for ten seconds, relax and repeat five times.
• Facing forward, do a slow twist by turning your head to the right and your torso to the left. Hold for ten seconds, relax and repeat five times.
• Sit tall and stretch both arms skyward. Hold for ten seconds, then extend the left hand higher, then the right. Relax, then repeat.
• Do the butt clench. Again, sitting, tighten your buttocks, hold for ten seconds, relax, then repeat ten times.
• Ten second ab squeezes. Just like the butt clench, but you tighten your stomach muscles. Suck in the gut, hold for ten seconds, relax and repeat ten times.

These are super easy and can be done at least once a day on the job.

So tell me do you have any mini exercises you do to ease stress and tone? How about your workout sessions? What’s the one exercise that you do faithfully?

I’m one of those people who want the window seat on a plane so I can get that bird’s eye view of the land, cities, and bodies of water we’re flying over.  But I haven’t done that much flying at night, or when I did, I had an aisle seat.

So on my last flight to Alabama for a combination writers’ mini retreat and Heart of Dixie Christmas party, I made sure I booked window seats going and coming.  And am I ever glad I did.

While in Alabama, I took a lovely walking tour with friend Lynn Raye Harris and her family through the historic district of Decatur.  The interiors of the old homes ranged from exquisitely decorated to a bit of a cluster of decorations, but the majority of the exteriors were done extremely well using live pine boughs, holly and fruit.

But I’ve also grown up watching the lavish display put on by elite retailers.   Anyone who’s been to The Plaza in Kansas City, MO during the holidays knows what I mean.   Their annual lighting ceremony at Thanksgiving kicks off the Holiday shopping.

I had an ungodly five-thirty am flight and it was dark when we took off and cloudy most of the flight, so I feared I wouldn’t get to see anything.  But the lights that were still on that time of morning glowed through the clouds, creating colored puffs of cotton.

Thanks to clear skies on the return flight, I got to see the neighborhoods and parks decorated as well in far better detail.  It brought back memories of my folks driving through neighborhoods in town to see the pretty displays.  While I missed sharing this moment from above with anyone, it was without a doubt the best way to view Christmas lights and displays.

So though I often grouse about the lines in stores and the commercialism of the holiday, flying above the glow of towns and cities is a bit enchanting.

Do you have any special displays you put up  each year or places or events you visit?  What’s the most beautiful display you’ve seen?  How about the worst?

Oh. My. God. If you are short (like moi) you’d better go in prepared to fight for what you want. I used to think they called it Black Friday because the stores made their years profit that day. Ha! They call it that because the shoppers are bruised when it’s over.

The seemingly sane people you’ve been conversing with for hours while you wait will turn into fang bearing creatures with a hunger for the thirty (or less or more) items up for the huge sale. However I am proud to say I was determined and stood my ground (thanks to the help of one brave soldier who gave me a hand, as in pulling me out of the bottom of the pile with arms laden with stuff.)

Will I do it again? Uh, no.

But then I’ve said those words before. What about you? Did you power shop on the mega sale weekend? Fight the crowds or play it sane and order it all online?