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Lessons from the kitchen…

In the book I’m currently finishing up (it will be out in June 2013) the heroine isn’t much of a cook. I can soooo relate.  I’m not a good cook either.

Actually, I’m horrible.  I made Thanksgiving dinner only once, but we still laugh about it.  In my defense, I never had any instruction in the culinary arts.  My mother (who was a good cook) had to do a lot of cooking growing up and didn’t want me (her only daughter) to be forced into the kitchen.  Plus our house was small, our kitchen even smaller so even if she’d wanted to show me, there wasn’t room for two cooks.

Once I left home, I was busy.  I worked my way through college (always one job, usually two) and it wasn’t worth making a big meal for just my husband and myself.  Besides, if I wasn’t in class, I was at work.  Our daughter was born three weeks before I graduated from college.  I tried to cook when she was small, but neither she nor my husband were very adventurous eaters.  I can still remember her looking down at some kind of casserole I’d made, pushing it to the side (she was about two at the time) and saying in that high-pitched little girl voice, “All Done.”

Interestingly our little girl is now an adult…and a good cook!  She taught herself and makes most things from scratch.

What did we survive on when she was growing up?  Soups, sandwiches, and eating out! lol

Though I’ve fallen short in this area, I’m always interested in hearing the culinary journeys of others…so won’t you please share yours?  As well as what your specialty dish is?  I really would like to know.  It’s another way we can get better acquainted.

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  1. Natalija Said:

    I can cook, but I don’t like. My partner loves cooking & I’m very happy that he does it at least a couple of times a week. I can make something simple, but he, being a Sicilian, creates :) I am not a big fan of pasta, but very often I can’t say no to his dishes.

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      You’re so lucky, Natalija. I wish my husband liked to cook!

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  2. Shana Said:

    Finally! Someone else who is not a good cook! I feel like I’m the only one. I’m horrible, and a lot of that is because I just don’t enjoy it. I don’t make the effort because I would seriously rather not eat than cook. I use the microwave a lot.

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Shane,

      I hear ya…I’d give up the stove before I’d give up the microwave!

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  3. ellie Said:

    I was an average cook all my life, but decided to improve and expand my repertoire. I have learned many new dishes which are tasty and not at all difficult to master. I will continue to improve my skills since it is appreciated.

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Ellie,

      I think I should follow your example and just add one or two simple dishes to my repetoire.

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  4. johnson.diane Said:

    I can cook, but not very good. With 2 teenage boys it seems to be they want lots of food and it does not have to taste like it came from a 5 star resturant so it works out works well for me.

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Diane, I think I should stick with simple dishes, too. My husband is like your boys, he doesn’t appreciate fine cuisine. Not that I’d ever made anything like that for him either. lol

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  5. Jane L Said:

    When I got married, I couldn’t cook a thing. It was slim pickens at our house at dinner time. My mom is a great country cook but I’m ashamed to say I wasn’t much help to her in the kitchen and although I’d watched, watching didn’t transfer tastefully to doing. I can cook now, mostly from scratch, dinners and desserts…at least on nights that don’t have ball practice or a game at the dinner hour.
    My mom makes FABULOUS fried chicken. My piece of choice was always the wishbone. However, I can’t cut up a chicken to save my soul so that the pieces are in any way recognizable. Even with my 80+ year old mom looking on and directing my movements, she lamented over my oddly shaped pieces. Quite frankly, she threw up her hands and said it was hopeless…such an easy task, cutting up chickens, she’d been doing it since she was 12.

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Jane,

      You can’t cut up a chicken…neither can I. But at least you’ve tried.

      I also have a terrible time picking out a chicken breast from a thigh. lol

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  6. Connie Fischer Said:

    I love to cook! When I was a child, my mother was widowed with three small children. She was forced to work outside the home and while we ate well, she did not have time to try her hand at more gourmet things. When I got married, I loved to peruse my cookbooks and I made a full dinner every night complete with homemade dessert. My love of cooking has only grown over the years. My husband has found he enjoys cooking too so we share. He prepares whatever meat or fish we’re having and I do the rest. I’m so thankful that our two sons learned to cook as my one daughter-in-law just does not cook. That means the chore falls on my son’s shoulders when he gets home from work. Her mother does not cook either so I think it’s all how one is brought up. I’m delighted to hear that your daughter has discovered a love for cooking. That’s terrific and, hopefully, she will pass that love on to her own children.

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Connie,

      I do think people who’s husbands like to cook with them are lucky. Of course, if my husband liked to cook, I’d probably let him cook the meal while I was doing something else.

      It is nice that our daughter likes to cook because she now prepares the holiday meal. I bring the pies…store bought, of course.

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  7. eap Said:

    I so admire good cooks.

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Me too, eap. Especially if they’re making a meal for ME. lol

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  8. Karen H in NC Said:

    I like to cook but I don’t do much now that I live alone, but I do make some things from scratch on occasion. Now a funny thing happened when I was in Michigan this summer. My daughter (who is an excellent cook), my SIL and I were sitting in their screened porch watching fireflies and twilight descend on the backyard and conversation turned to food. I was talking about something I had made awhile back (can’t remember what it was now), and I said ‘you want to talk about good? It was outstanding if I do say so myself!’ My SIl immediately said that can be the name of your cookbook! Yeah, right! Not in my lifetime…maybe I’ll let Erika use the title for her cookbook!

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Karen,

      What a lovely picture you paint of the fireflies, screened-in porch and the wonderful conversation as twilight descends.

      I wished you lived close so you could invite me to dinner. :)

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  9. Shannon Said:

    Trader Joe’s and Costco for meat/protein dishes. I can manage making some veggies and carbohydrates from scratch. The kids have so many after school activities that there just isn’t any time to really cook.

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Shannon,

      We don’t have a Costco in my town, but I’m going to check out the meals at Trader Joe’s. Thanks for the heads up!

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  10. catslady Said:

    My mom and her sister (and brother) lived on a small vegetable farm. My mom took over a lot of the cleaning at an early age and my aunt did some of the cooking. They both stayed that way their whole lives (although they both did the other job adequately). My sister is the cleaner and I am the cook lol. My one daughter won’t cook anything while her sister does cook some. I basically taught myself. I got married at 18 and after a l0 hr. work day or more (long commute) I would come home and cook a full dinner for the two of us. I must have been nuts lol.

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      catslady,

      Well, if you could teach yourself, perhaps I can teach myself…someday.

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  11. Na S. Said:

    I’m learning how to cook, slowly working at it. I’m nothing like my mom who is a whiz in the kitchen! The easiest thing for me to make is a submarine sandwich and I like how I can change the ingredients inside :) Soups are also good. I like recipes where I can taste and work from there, rather than measuring everything out.

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Na,

      I should try some soups. As long as they aren’t a lot of work…

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  12. Margo Maguire Said:

    I learned how to cook when I was in college. It was my break from intense studying. I’d look up a recipe and make it. I got about 5 or 6 really good ones that I’ve been making all through the years, and they’re really good stand-bys, although I would say my cooking habits have changed significantly the past few years. We do a lot more grilling of simple things now. And I rarely eat meat. Not that I’m an actual vegetarian – I just don’t usually want it. That changes it up quite a bit!

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Margo,

      That’s what I should do, find five or six things I could make well. Right now, I only have one. Pot roast with potatoes, carrots, cabbage and onion in the crock pot.

      Really, that’s it. :)

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  13. Kirsten Said:

    I’m an ok cook if I may say so myself. I had to learn how to cook from an early age. I learned from my mom, who learned it from her mom… I now enjoy doing it. I bake things and make pancakes. Casseroles and my own pizza. Also like to do soup or a vegie lasagna. But my fav thing to make and eat is pumpkin pie. Not the healthiest thing with the marshmallow cream and all but this time of year I do indulge in it. :grin:

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Good for you, Kirsten! And everything you make sounds yummy.

      I made a pumpkin pie recently. Sara Lee. Frozen in the box. Popped it in the oven on 375. I’m POSITIVE it wasn’t as good as yours.

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  14. Kristan Higgins Said:

    I’m a terrible cook, Cindy. But McIrish is great in the kitchen, so the kids are safe. : )

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Kristan,

      I’m relieved to know your children are safe! And aren’t most fire fighters good cooks?

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  15. CateS Said:

    I like cooking… but abhor the ‘what would you like to have for dinner’ part of it.. well, and the clean up… Now in my town, the deli’s are so good, sheesh, you don’t need to cook, just drop by and pick up dinner. Stuffed peppers, lasagana, meatloaf, etc.

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Cate,

      That’s what I tell my husband. When it’s only the two of you and you split it, it’s as cheap to buy it at the deli rather than buy the ingredients.

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  16. cheryl c. Said:

    I have actually become a pretty good cook over the years. When I was a newlywed, though, we lived off of corn dogs, fish sticks, and pot pies! :lol:

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Cheryl,

      Your post brought back such fond memories…fish sticks. God how we used to love those. With tartar sauce of course!

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  17. Cathy P Said:

    When I got married 38 years ago, I didn’t know how to fix anything from scratch except chocolate chip cookies and spaghetti. I am not really adventuresome in the kitchen but do fix a lot of things anymore, and my husband says to this day that he prefers my spaghetti over anyone else’s.

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Cathy,

      Congrats on 38 years together!!!

      I make spaghetti too…with Chef Boyardee sauce!

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  18. Jane Said:

    I’m not much of a cook. I can’t make much from scratch. My dad is the cook of the family. His specialty is beef fried noodles.

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Jane,

      MMMMM…beef fried noodles. Your father is welcome to cook at my house anytime.

      My dad was a great cook too. He made a fabulous beef stew.

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  19. bn100 Said:

    I don’t really cook. Someone else does it.

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Good for you, bn100. I wish I could find someone to cook for me. :)

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  20. Danielle Gorman Said:

    I think I’m on okay cook but I wish I were so much better. I watch all of these cooking shows with envy wishing I was able to do the things those chefs do.

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Danielle,

      The thing about all those chef shows…they do make it look so easy…but they have all the ingredients right there…and they know what they’re doing. lol

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  21. Deb Said:

    Cindy, I used to cook and bake all the time, but I’ve gotten away from doing so. I do try to make a (nice) dinner on Sundays and during my longer breaks from school. My husband is a good cook, so we do share duties. My specialties are bars and cookies and homemade brownies. I’d love to be able to make pies, but I just can’t seem to do it like my mother, sisters, and my future daughter-in-law. I learned from my mother and started paying attention to what to do when she began working on Wednesday nights when I was in 6th grade and had to get the meal ready that she started before going into work.

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    • Deb Said:

      I do make homemade noodles. They’re good, and yes, you can buy homemade ones in the store, but it’s fun to make them and know that you did when cooking them! ;-)

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      • Cindy Kirk Said:

        Deb,

        I read a book where the heroine made homemade noodles. I was so impressed. And I’m impressed you can make them, too!

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  22. Kathleen O Said:

    I cook a few dishes good, but I would not say I am a great cook… I have never poisoned anyone that I know of..

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Kathleen,

      Thanks! You just gave me another excuse for not cooking–I wouldn’t want to poison anyone. lol

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  23. Barbara Elness Said:

    I don’t really have a specialty dish because I don’t really cook. When I had to bring a dessert to work, I searched for no bake dishes because I have such a hard time figuring out how to make my oven work. :D I think the microwave is the greatest invention ever, it is definitely my friend. ;-)

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      The microwave and the deli are my two best friends!!!

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  24. Rita Wray Said:

    When my kids were young I cooked dinner every night. Now that they are grown and married I don’t worry about it as much. There are nights that my husband and I have a bowl of oatmeal. I do have a specialty dish, Finnish meatballs. I fix them often and take dinner to my son, his wife and my grandsons who love them.

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    • Cindy Kirk Said:

      Rita,

      I have oatmeal for dinner sometimes, too!!!

      You make Finnish meatballs. Impressive.

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