Lately I’ve been reading a book titled What the Most Successful People Do Before Breakfast by Laura Vanderkam. I don’t usually read non-fiction books, unless I have to do research for a novel, but I’m really enjoying this one. Basically, the premise is that before most of us hear our alarm clock go off, the really successful people among us have already done something that is propelling them toward where they want to be in their lives and/or careers.
Vanderkam then proceeds to detail the lives of some very successful public figures, as well as CEOs, and what they do each morning before most of us are up. This might include exercise (usually it does), prayer, reading, going to a diner to read the papers and have coffee. Basically, early morning is the only time most of us have complete control over, and that’s when we can get the most done.
These findings are completely true in my life. I almost always regret sleeping in (by which I mean sleeping until seven or later). My morning is almost always hectic, rushed, and stressful. I am behind before I am even awake.
But I’m a morning person, a lark, if you will. I don’t know that waking up early would work for a night owl. But I still think there are several things I learned in the book that, whether they are done in the morning or some other time, usually go hand-and-hand with success.
1.Exercise
Successful people make time for the gym, a run, or their trainer. Successful people have a regular exercise routine.
2. Willpower
Successful people have a lot of willpower—tough choices have become habits. They are determined and persistent. (FYI, research shows that tasks requiring willpower, like exercise, are easier to accomplish in the morning when we have a fresh supply of willpower). The good news for those of us not born with extraordinary willpower is that it can be learned or re-learned. I think most of us are born with a great deal of it (watch any toddler for an illustration), and it just takes some practice to get it back.
3. Routine
Successful people have routines that work. Humans like routine. Don’t believe me? Again, watch that toddler or infant. Kids need routines, and so do we as adults. This isn’t to say a successful person can’t deviate from routine, but he or she also knows the value of having a daily schedule that works well for him or her and sticking with it.
So what are some of the traits you observe in successful people? When I think of successful writers, I often think of Nora Roberts, who writes every day, all day, breaking to eat and (that’s right) exercise.





























































Jul 17th
2012
6:20 am
Sandi in OH Said:
We work our three mornings a week now that we are retired. In the real world I was a secretary. Successful people delegate the work to the people below them. The successful people go home early and the others work until closing or later.
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Jul 17th
2012
7:38 am
Shana Said:
Sandi, that’s probably true too! Successful people often have a lot of minions making them even more successful.
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Jul 17th
2012
8:12 am
Margo Maguire Said:
My husband is a great role model. He has always exercised (and I mean vigorously) every day, and kept to a strict routine. When he’s had a job where there’s a gym, he always did his running and working out at lunchtime. If no gym, he did it when he got home from work. But – interestingly enough, never in the morning. And he never eats breakfast (something the weight control gurus always say you should do). The guy has never gained a pound in all the years I’ve known him. And he’s been a succesful executive scientist for all of his professional life.
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Jul 17th
2012
2:30 pm
Shana Said:
Margo, sounds like your husband found something that worked for him and stuck to it. I know for me, if I don’t exercise in the morning, I won’t get to it. And any work I save until after dinner, unless it HAS to be done, will be moved to the morning, even when I have the best intentions. My mom doesn’t eat breakfast either. I have to. I’m starving as soon as I wake up. But I don’t usually eat after 7 or 8 the night before.
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Jul 17th
2012
11:26 am
Connie Fischer Said:
I admire my son who fits this description perfectly. He is up at 4AM and goes through a killer exercise routine to a video for an hour. Occasionally, he breaks that up by hitting the gym at 5AM for an hour or so of cardio. Then, he’s home for a shower and morning coffee. He works from home for a large financial institution where he has conference calls with Latin America and Singapore at all times of the day and evening. Thus, he has to be prepared at all times of the day for those calls in addition to his regular duties. He pays close attention to good nutrition choices as well. He gets plenty of restful sleep at night and is ready to start again the next morning. At 40, he is happy, healthy and very successful. He’s my hero. What more could someone want?
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Jul 17th
2012
2:32 pm
Shana Said:
Connie, your son sounds very disciplined. Speaking as a person who works from home, I promise it is harder than you would think to stay on task and focused.
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Jul 19th
2012
8:07 am
Connie Fischer Said:
Thank you, Shana! Yes, he is well-disciplined and very happy. I think that most people who work at home are happier, more relaxed and studies have shown that they willingly work longer hours than many of those people who go to an office. I hope this is a way that many more jobs will go in the future. It certainly saves an employer from having to provide office space. When “physical” get-togethers are required, a conference room can be rented somewhere. Entrepreneurs out there, are you listening?
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Jul 17th
2012
12:29 pm
RobynDeHart Said:
I wish I was one of those people who could get up extra early and function. I don’t have to sleep late, I’m actually a morning person. But I HATE alarm clocks, they make me cranky. It was like the worst part of having a day job. Now that I have small children, I don’t need an alarm clock.
But I naturally wake up around 7 on my own so getting up about 6:30 with Babybee isn’t that terrible. If my kids slept later, I’d be able to get so much more done. That’s the trick, I need to train them to sleep later!
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Jul 17th
2012
2:34 pm
Shana Said:
Robyn, I wish i could train mine to sleep later too. She’s up at 6:30 or earlier. If she would just sleep until 7, I’d have so much more accomplished.
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Jul 17th
2012
9:48 pm
Emily McKay Said:
I do get up early (six most mornings), but I find I had trouble working on writing early in the morning. My brain just doesn’t work well in the morning. Unless I’m really in the thick of a book. Then I can work any time. ‘Cause I have to.
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Jul 18th
2012
6:51 am
Shana Said:
I know what you mean about the foggy brain, Emily. It does seem I write in a sort of fog for the first 15 minutes. But in a way I like that. I’m not editing or over-thinking it.
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