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The Nest Before The Storm. . . .

   Have you ever been pregnant? Or known someone who was? There’s a time late in the pregnancy that the old wives called ‘nesting’ — a time when the sudden and powerful urge to clean and organize swoops in and the need to move furniture and wash curtains seems irresistible. A time to prepare the nest, so to speak.

I remember it during each of my three pregnancies and usually could not resist it — even though the old wives suggested doing just that. Why? Well, that’s the exact time when an about-to-be-mother should be conserving her strength to go through labor instead of using it all up mopping floors!

Fast forward to my writing career. . . and I’ve decided that creativity in its many forms seem to cause that ‘nesting’ instinct.

I write each book in a deadline-focused blur but before I reach that stage, I go through some kind of nesting process. I guess it’s my brain’s way of clearing a path to the story that is simmering inside. I clean the office, organize my research books and materials, gather my planning pages, diagrams and charts and get ready to write. (Yes, I create geneology charts, diagrams of my villages and keeps and write out my plans for the story!)

Last week, the nesting began. The need to sort out my books, putting the ones about Scotland and medieval history closer to my desk. The need to find and review my character lists and names from previous MacLerie books. Pens, pencils and notebooks at the ready. Flashdrives for backing-up. Copies of the previous MacLerie books or manuscripts.

I still have some time before the heavy writing will begin, but a sense of calm came over me once I finished cleaning my office and getting things in place. Now, everything is where I can find it when I need it. Ahhhhhhh………….

So, how about you? Do you experience ‘nesting’? Is it before a big project for work or school? Or do you have another way to prepare for big challenges? Please let me know — I’ll pick one person who comments to receive one of my backlist books (print or digital)….

    Terri is not only nesting, she also getting ready to attend the annual RWA conference in Anaheim, CA. She’ll be signing (along with 500+ authors) at the RWA Literacy Signing on Wednesday, July 25th at 5:30pm. It’s open to the public and she hopes to see lots of her readers there. (Pssst — she’s signing the UK edition of THE HIGHLANDER’S STOLEN TOUCH but don’t tell anyone! LOL)  Visit her website for more info about RWA and her upcoming releases!

 

 

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  1. Melody May Said:

    There must be something wrong with me, because I never real did nest. I mean with my first child I kinda did, but partially. Only because we had a roommate living the future babies room & he somehow made that room reek. However, he didn’t move out until the day the baby was born, so I couldn’t clean that room. My husband had to it while was in the hospital. With the next child I didn’t want to anything but read. I did not feel good until he was out. So, I haven’t felt the urge to nest really. :|

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  2. Shana Said:

    You know, I didn’t nest either, Melody. I thought I would, but I never got the urge. Maybe that’s because I’m such a nester to begin with. I mean, I like everything done on schedule and organized.

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  3. Cindy Kirk Said:

    I do the same thing with writing…and I actually look forward to getting everything organized and ready for the next project.

    In terms of pregnancy, like Melody, I don’t remember doing any nesting. But then I was in my last semester of college (21 hours that semester) and I was also working,

    I went to school and worked Monday night, had her Tuesday morning and was back in school the following Monday (with three weeks left in the semester before graduation).

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  4. Terri Brisbin Said:

    I think I actually only nested with the first one — the second one I was so sick through the whole pregnancy, it never entered my mind to clean! The third one….I forget if I did or didn’t! LOL!

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  5. Dani Wade Said:

    I nested with both my kids, although by the time it hit me with my son, I could barely walk. ;-)

    I don’t nest before I write, except with my plotting notes — those have to be organized and in place. But after–that’s a whole other story. I have to take several days after typing The End to get the house back into some kind of order. I can ignore it until then, but once I’m no longer lost in Story Land, everything has to be cleaned!

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  6. catslady Said:

    I’m not much of an organized person because I’m usually all or nothing and if I can’t do it full force I sometimes don’t do it at all lol. I do remember having my first child’s bedroom totally ready – wallpapered and all lol. For the second, the oldest got her room totally done and moved to the big girl bed – so technically my first born got the benefit of my organizing and she has that type of personality while my youngest is like me and takes things a lot more easy going most of the time lol.

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  7. Connie Fischer Said:

    It has been many years since I was last pregnant but I definitely remember the nesting instinct hitting me before I went into labor each time. I got a burst of energy and just felt like cleaning. I could have gone at it for days at a time! Each time, right afterward, I went into labor. I’m a true believer that this is positive proof that the nesting instinct is real!

    These days, the only nesting I want to do is settle into a chair and read a good book! Ah yes, life is good!

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  8. wendy p Said:

    I was definately a ‘nester’ – which of course, not being a deep-cleaner to begin with was completely out of character for me.

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  9. Kathleen O Said:

    I can remember this happening to one of my SIL’s… It was New Years Eve day and her and my brother were moving.. We tried to get her to slow down and rest, she was due any day, but she said that she felt great and had a lot of engery…Well 6 days later she went into labor with my niece… So yes, I believe in this “nesting” thing..

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  10. bn100 Said:

    I organize everything before I start a project.

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  11. Maureen Said:

    I do enjoy getting the house in order and that does make me feel like I can get a lot accomplished.

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  12. StacieD Said:

    LOL, I did some nesting today. I start my new job tomorrow so I cleaned and organized my whole house today. I don’t want to have to worry about clutter when I’m already stressed about the new job.

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  13. Barbara Elness Said:

    I do that type of thing occasionally, when I’ll get the urge to redo a room, or clean out a closet and get things all ship shape and in order. I feel so much better when things are clutter free and organized, especially if a stressful situation like out of town visitors is coming up.

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