I have to admit it. I totally had spring fever yesterday. I had an open window of about three hours to work yesterday afternoon, and I did not get three hours worth of work done.
Part of the problem is it was a beautiful day (85 degrees, here in Central Texas) and I was trying to sit outside to work. It’s just hard to keep your fingers on the keyboard on a day so beautiful! Especially since it’s been cold and overcast for so many days in row.
Part of the problem is I’d been working really hard since mid-last week, and you can only push out so many words before you just want a break.
And part of the problem is I knew I was having dinner with a group of writer friends last night, so I was eager to just go play.
It doesn’t help that yesterday morning, I had a major eureka moment about my work in progress, so I told myself I needed “simmer” time. That last excuse is the most legitimate of the bunch. If I’ve just figured out something major about my characters or my story, I need time to let it filter through my brain, to let the new ideas marinate a bit with the story so the flavors can develop.
Still, I know I’ll be back at work today, because I have a book due in less than a month and I can’t afford another day off. But, yesterday … yesterday was nice. I took just a few pages of notes about my eureka moment, then I took a walk and even went and got a pedicure. This is not like me. Yes, I am a procrastinator by nature. Despite that, I have a strong work ethic when it comes to writing. If I have pages to do, I get them done, even if I have to stay up late to do them.
I’m hoping that today, spring fever will be gone, banished like the plague it is. That when I sit down at the keyboard, the words will just flow and that my afternoon off will serve me well and that I’ll come to my book renewed and energized. Or at the very least, panicked and desperate.
What do you do to treat yourself on days off? Share your favorite way to pamper yourself and I’ll pick three people to win one of my books.



































































































Feb 23rd
2012
1:48 am
Jane Said:
Getting a massage is always a treat and I also like to shop and buy a little something for myself like make up or some pretty clothes.
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Feb 23rd
2012
8:28 am
EmilyMcKay Said:
Oh, a massage is a divine treat, Jane! I love getting a massage.
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Feb 23rd
2012
3:08 am
Katherine Garbera Said:
Emily, your day off sounds fabulous. I think you should call it an Artist Date and count it as working because as you said you can only push out so many words before you need a break!
I am a fan of pedicures and massages but what I really love is shopping and trying on clothes. I know its a sickness really but when I’m feeling down I head to the mall and sometimes stores that are out of my price range to try on clothes that I have no practical reason to purchase…they just look pretty and make me feel good!
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Feb 23rd
2012
8:30 am
EmilyMcKay Said:
You know, Katherine, that’s totally what I’m going to do. It was a much needed Artist Date.
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Feb 23rd
2012
3:25 am
Elise Rome Said:
Sounds like a great day! =) I know it’s simple, but my idea of being “pampered” includes having someone else watch the kids all day while I sleep and read as much as I want. I might have to ask for that for Mother’s Day.
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Feb 23rd
2012
8:31 am
EmilyMcKay Said:
Elise, that doesn’t just sound simple, that sounds wonderful.
I remember when my kids were just a little bit younger and I was still up at night with them. Just having the chance to nap was such a treat.
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Feb 23rd
2012
6:09 am
Quilt Lady Said:
Hey we all need a day off sometimes. Most of the time the only way I pamper myself is by spending a few hours reading in the afternoon or taking a long walk. Sometimes even a nap is nice.
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Feb 23rd
2012
8:33 am
EmilyMcKay Said:
Quilt Lady, that all sounds awesome! I would love to take a day off just to read!
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Feb 23rd
2012
6:48 am
Kristan Higgins Said:
I think days like that are utterly crucial, Emily…rest for your brain isn’t really rest, it’s percolation, as you said. And balance is a necessary part of life, even for us writers.
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Feb 23rd
2012
8:35 am
EmilyMcKay Said:
That’s certainly true, Kristan. It was such a refreshing day!
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Feb 23rd
2012
6:58 am
Janette Kenny Said:
Warmer days definitely bring on spring fever. All my flowering bulbs are pushing through the ground which is too early. Your day off sounded great– and it’s good for the soul and brain to give over a day now and then. I can get lost in a day of shopping.
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Feb 23rd
2012
8:38 am
EmilyMcKay Said:
Janette, like you, I love to shop. But I only like shopping for clothes if I’m with a friend. If I’m all alone, I have no idea what looks good on me. But shopping at Target … man, I can do that all day
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Feb 23rd
2012
9:54 am
Kathryn in Montreal Said:
Time is how I like to pamper myself… I work full-time and I have 4 kids and even though only one is at home now they still make me busy.
Time to read, time to quilt, time to garden, time to knit…
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Feb 23rd
2012
7:05 pm
Emily McKay Said:
Boy, Kathryn, I hear you. I only have the two and I know how busy they keep me. When they’re young, you keep thinking, “Oh, I’ll be less busy when they’re older.” but mine are old enough now to know that we’re even busier.
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Feb 23rd
2012
10:00 am
CrystalGB Said:
My favorite way to pamper myself is a girls day out with my best friend. We go shopping, eat lunch and buy books.
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Feb 23rd
2012
7:08 pm
Emily McKay Said:
Crystal, I love having a day with my best friend. Just this Monday, I got together with Robyn and we had a blast!
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Feb 23rd
2012
10:49 am
eap Said:
A nap or a new book.
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Feb 23rd
2012
7:09 pm
Emily McKay Said:
eap …. hmmm, nap….
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Feb 23rd
2012
11:48 am
Shana Said:
I need a day like that. I think I’d like to watch a movie or get a massage. I also love pedicures.
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Feb 23rd
2012
7:22 pm
Emily McKay Said:
Shana, one of the things i always do when i finish a book is have a movie day. I love movies!
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Feb 23rd
2012
12:33 pm
catslady Said:
The only shopping I like is book shopping lol. Curling up with a good book and a good cup of coffee and at least one purring cat is always a treat. If the weather is nice I enjoy going out on my backporch swing and enjoy nature at the same time.
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Feb 23rd
2012
7:52 pm
Emily McKay Said:
Yeah, Catslady, that sounds like a pretty good pamper day.
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Feb 23rd
2012
1:15 pm
Minna Said:
I read, crochet and watch DVDs. And eat chocolate.
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Feb 23rd
2012
8:00 pm
Emily McKay Said:
Minna, I used to knit to relax during TV time. I stopped doing it when the kids were little ’cause they’d wrap the yarn around their necks … oh, so not relaxing. But maybe I should try to take it up again now that they’re older.
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Feb 23rd
2012
2:15 pm
Sarah Said:
I use to get massages… Now I have to hope to eek a few pages of reading.
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Feb 23rd
2012
8:02 pm
Emily McKay Said:
Sarah, …. hmmmm… massages ….. yum
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Feb 23rd
2012
2:54 pm
Kelli Said:
There’s nothing like a relaxing hot bubble bath to pamper myself. Unless it’s good quality chocolate, a delicious red wine, or any combination of the above!
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Feb 23rd
2012
8:03 pm
Emily McKay Said:
Kelli, you are a woman after my own heart!
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Feb 23rd
2012
9:26 pm
bn100 Said:
I like to go shopping.
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Feb 23rd
2012
11:30 pm
LilMissMolly Said:
I try to take a long nice luxurious bubble bath. The type where you light a candle, put on some music and just lay in the tub until the water gets cold.
My last two attempts have been a bust though because I’ve tried to take a bath after one of my teen daughter’s took a shower. I didn’t have enough hot water to fill my tub! Fastest bath ever!
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