The other day as I was taking a break from my work in progress, I came across the above Romance Writer “meme.” I laughed over it, repined it to one of my “Pinterest” boards (OMG, have you discovered “Pinterest” yet? If not, run! Save yourself…it’s more addicting than computer card games…) and got back to work like a diligent writer-do-be.
You see, I’m a few (long) days away from typing THE END on another book. Armed with my detailed “story board” and three dimensional characters who are calling the shots (at this point in the process, I’m just the scribe), I’m living full-time in “Story Land.”
That made me think about another misconception about the Romance Writing process, and it dawned on me that there could be another “Meme” for a writer on deadline. I may be lost in “Story Land,” but friends, family and my editor probably see it another way.
At this point in the process, I’m pretty sure this is how my family sees it (or more aptly, this is how they see me):
This is what my friends see (because I usually go MIA around this time): 
This is how my editor views this part of the process (why is it so hard to let go of a book???): 
When, actually, this is what’s going on (in my mind):
Unless the muse and/or the characters aren’t playing nice… then this is what’s happening: 
I suppose I can see how that might be mistaken for this:
But they did have full warning: 
I’d better get back to the book… But first, are there areas in your life that others don’t necessarily view the same way you do?
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Coming in May 2012
Fortune’s Unexpected Groom
By Nancy Robards Thompson
Book 5 in The Fortunes of Texas: Whirlwind Romance series






































































































Feb 17th
2012
1:10 am
Sharon A Said:
Oh where to start! I’m a stay at home mom, which means I’m an alarm clock, breakfast & lunch coordinator, art teacher, reading tutor, sports coach, team mom, carpool coordinator and driver, grocery stocker and delivery person, housekeeper, dog walker, interior designer, charity pick up and delivery person, dinner chef, and way too many other things to list.
And that’s just the things I have to do, I’m not even yet to the things I like to do.
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Feb 17th
2012
7:10 am
Kristan Higgins Said:
Oh, you’re funny, Nancy! I agree… “Romance Writer” has a certain elan to it that’s sometimes quite different from reality! Are there days when I dress up in fabulous shoes and have meetings in the city. Sure! Are there days when I forget to eat and shower and dust bunnies are colonizing the bedroom. Oh, yeah. And let’s not forget the days that I slog over to my office like a sulky kid, muttering under my breath. But that’s just how ti goes, I think, and the more writers I meet, the more it heartens me to know that I’m not alone!
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Feb 17th
2012
8:19 am
Shana Galen Said:
Nancy, I am avoiding Pinterest, but I know it’s only a matter of time before I’m dragged there too.
I hate telling people I know that I’m a romance writer. They always think that it’s a really glamorous job and think I’m famous or something. Then they find out the truth, and it’s always a let-down–for both of us! It’s just a job, and I work at it like everyone else.
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Feb 17th
2012
9:10 am
Emily McKay Said:
I’m fast approaching the angry beast stage of my deadline. I’ve got about a month left before the book is due, but I’ve got a family vacation in there (Why, oh why, did I plan a family vacation the week a book is due????). So any day now I’ll turn into that beast in the cave.
Maybe all we quills should get adjoining caves by the seaside.
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Feb 17th
2012
12:21 pm
catslady Said:
lol I never thought it was a glamorous job. I remember in school we took this test as to what kind of jobs we were suited to. I failed as a writer but that’s because every time they asked a question my choice was never writing because I thought it would be impossibly hard although it’s something I thought would be wonderful to do. In truth I wanted to be an artist too but was told I had to get a real job (sigh).
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Feb 17th
2012
2:59 pm
Cynthia D'Alba Said:
This is hysterical. Too close to the truth, but wonderfully funny!
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Feb 18th
2012
8:26 am
Catherine Kean Said:
Tee hee! LOVED your post, Nancy, and all of the funny pictures. I turn into an Angry Beast too when I’m close to a deadline. I get to the point where I just want to get the darned book DONE! Sounds like you’ve got it all under control, though. I’m sure this story you’re finishing is another winner!
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Feb 24th
2012
2:13 pm
Lorelei Said:
So funny the modes we shift into, as a mom I’m pretty close to Sharon A. put he has definitely more on her plate.
Sometimes I paste that smile on my face making others believe I’m fine and dandy, when in reality at times my mind is going a mile a minute, exasperated, elated, maddened, desperate, devastated, all kinds of emotions like your pictures, lol! Only a handful of people who know me can tell how I’m really feeling. Sometimes my kids give me that “watch out, she’s gonna bite our heads off” look. They wisely retreat leaving to my endeavor.
And being a band parent a couple of years back, you know that rule: If you’re early you’re on time, and if you’re on time then your late, and if you’re late, well, you get the picture… People would say why are you so paranoid about the time? … They have yet to learn from this experience!
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Feb 24th
2012
2:14 pm
Lorelei Said:
*but she…. sorry! key glitch there!
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