My family is so important to me. The concept of family makes its way into just about every book I write. The book I’m writing for the Fortunes of Texas series (An Unexpected Fortune, May 2012) is all about family dynamics, as is my three-book Special Edition series, which will hit the shelves toward the end of next year. I’m working on a proposal for a juicy southern family saga. Naturally, all this writing and research about family has me thinking a lot about where my people came from.
A good friend of mine can trace her family tree all the way back to Henri II, of France and Charlemagne. I was enthralled and envious to hear this. I’ve always wanted to know my ancestry, but short of urging my retired father, who’s busier now than when he was doing the 9-5 grind, to take up the project, I’ve never done much toward that end ( in all my spare time
). But having heard about my friend’s roots, I’m once again inspired to learn about my lineage. Plus, I’m convinced that this friend and I must be distant cousins since we both have relatives from the Ozarks – could those roots stretch all the way back to France? Maybe that would explain why I’m such a Francophile.
Several years before my grandmother passed away, I asked her to write down the birth dates and deaths of as many relatives a she could remember. But even she could only recall four or five generations. I wish I had time to take up the project, but since I don’t, my goal is to busy my father with solving the puzzle of our past.
Have you ever traced your family tree or do you know of anyone who has? Any interesting findings? Any good tips on how to start the process and what to expect along the way?




























































Sep 9th
2011
2:32 am
Katherine Garbera Said:
I’ve traced my family but not back very far. We used Ancestry.com to help fill in the gaps. My family on my mom’s side came through Ellis Island in the 1890s so we kind of ran into a wall there but have been getting in touch with other relatives to fill in the blanks about our family in Italy. On my dad’s side we’re related to the Hathaways and there is a entire book on them
traces it all the way back to the colonies and when they came over to the US from the UK.
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Sep 9th
2011
6:17 am
Sandra Rogers Said:
My husband traced his family tree and found out that he is a direct descendent of Thomas Rogers who came over on the Mayflower. I traced my paternal grandmother’s one side back to John Brockett who came over in 1640. He helped survey the 9 greens in New Haven CT. The oldest building of Yale stands on one of the squares. I haven’t done much research on the other side. My mom insists that we are related to either the Hatfields or the McCoys. I need to check that out.
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Sep 9th
2011
6:57 am
Shana Galen Said:
Both of my parents’ families have done quite a bit of research into our past. Recently my dad was telling me all about one of our renegade ancestors and trying to convince me to write a book about him. The man was a minister who had multiple affairs on his wife. I’m not sure my dad gets the kind of books I write. LOL!
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Sep 9th
2011
8:26 am
Emily McKay Said:
I too have always been fascinated by family history. On my mother’s side, we can trace back to the revolution. In fact, we have the spoon one of the men carried with him during the war. I’ve always thought that was super cool.
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Sep 9th
2011
9:31 am
kris Said:
my husband’s half brother traced the family back to something like second cousin twice removed to the Bush’s. I told him that and $3.50 will get him a cup of coffee at Starbuck’s.
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Sep 9th
2011
10:37 am
catslady Said:
My husband’s uncle has been doing this for over 30 years. He’s retired now and puts tons of time into it. He even had an expensive DNA test done to help match up with more relations. He’s gone back at least two or three hundred years. I do know that one relative was a horse theif lol.
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Sep 9th
2011
12:06 pm
Kathleen Said:
My dad’a family can be traced back to the King’s of Ireland. They even made a movie about one of my ancestors called The Fighting Prince of Donegal, Red Hugh O’Donnell. I think the book came out first. My dad’s cousin did a family tree as far back as she could get, somewhere in the early 1700′s. I have my dad’s copy now.
My mom’s family I am sure can trace it family back just as far in Scotland and ireland. she was a Campbell..
It is very insightful knowing your background and a lot of fun too..
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Sep 9th
2011
10:26 pm
Sandra Rogers Said:
My mother is a Campbell but I haven’t been able to trace it more than four generations.
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Sep 9th
2011
12:30 pm
Corrina Said:
My dad has done both sides of my family. Always a work in progress though he tells me. He uses the Family Tree Maker software & it’s very impressive. Places for you to scan documents as related to certain family members, photos, you can print off graphs of the family tree, etc. It offers you lots of suggestions on places to look too, based on where your family originates from.
My favorite find, thus far, is that one of my many times great grandfathers in Scotland wrote about his time as a prisoner of war during the reign of Napoleon. It’s amazing to have his book on my bookshelves.
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Sep 9th
2011
10:17 pm
LilMissMolly Said:
I’ve love to know about my family tree. I have 4 sisters and we were reared by our maternal grandparents. I know next to nothing about my father’s side of the family. My sisters mean everything to me – I moved from LA — 2600 miles — after living in LA for 12 years – just to be closer to them. Now that I live just a few hours from all of them, we get together at least twice a year: Christmas and which ever one of us is turning 50 or 45.
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Sep 10th
2011
7:59 am
Catherine Kean Said:
Great post, Nancy!
After my dad retired, he took up the project of tracing our ancestors and has put together a wonderful book that features pictures of each relative (whenever available) and details about the person. Fascinating stuff. It really brings history to life on a personal level.
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Sep 10th
2011
10:06 am
Oregon Kimm Said:
I’ve been doing genealogy for over 20 years now. I love finding connections to the past. I also like to envision my ancestors’ lives and how they got along in their eras. Getting started is easy, just pick one person to start with and from there. Just don’t let yourself get overwhelmed when you stumble across a bunch of new names to add. Move slowly through each one. Tracing your family takes years and years if you plan on doing it properly. Also make sure you document your sources. Somewhere along the line, you may have to prove your claims!
Ancestry.com is valuable and a DNA test is highly recommended. Remember, you need a related male to test for your father’s line…
Oregon Kimm
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