
When school was in session, my daughter had a great homework assignment for her psychology class called, “The Soundtrack to my Life.” She had to identify eight turning points in her life, chose a song that related to or reminded her of the turning point and explain why. It was a fascinating glimpse into her life. She had so much fun doing it, she suggested I use the exercise for my blog.
We’re a musical family anyway, but when I read over the songs she selected and started thinking about the songs I would include in my soundtrack, it made me realize how profoundly music can transform and transport you back to specific times in your life. Victor Hugo got it exactly right when he said, “Music expresses that which cannot be put into words and cannot remain silent.”
With that in mind, I’ll give you the eight songs from the soundtrack to my life. Will you please share yours? If you’re in a hurry, it doesn’t have to be eight songs – any number will do. In fact, if you’re up for presenting a double-disk compilation, go right ahead. I think our life’s soundtrack is a work in progress.
The Soundtrack to Nancy’s life:
Morning Has Broken, by Cat Stevens – One of my earliest memories is of my father singing. He used to sing all the time. Still does. The first song that comes to mind is him singing Cat Steven’s Morning Has Broken. It always makes me smile and miss him.
Shake it up, by The Cars – Actually, whenever I hear
anything by The Cars, it takes me right back to my high school days and makes me want to dance. Those were the days. Gosh, it doesn’t seem like it what that long ago.
La Isla Bonita, by Madonna – A few years after high school, I met a guy… He wasn’t the guy, but at the time I thought he was. The minute I saw him the world tilted and I fell head-over-heels. When we broke up (about four years later) I thought I’d never get over him. I did, and not too long afterward, I did meet Mr. Right…Well, actually, I met and married Mr. Thompson. Still, I must confess, when I hear this song it transports me back to another time. ** Note to my husband: It’s only a song and a very distant memory.
All I Ask of You, by Sarah Brightman and Cliff Richard – Which brings me
to the song that reminds me of my husband. It was supposed to be our first dance at our wedding, but a few days before the big day, the string quartet we’d booked to play informed us that they didn’t know it and, of course, there was no time to learn it. Never fear, some good friends of ours who are opera singers came to the rescue and sang it for us during the ceremony. They did such a beautiful job, I turned to my husband and whispered, “I want to clap.” He answered, “I know.” But by that time the minister had moved on with the wedding. I wish we would’ve clapped.
Amazing Grace – This one reminds me of my mother passing away. I always tear up when I hear it.
I Hope You Dance – by Lee Ann Womack. Although, this song came out several years after my daughter was born. It’s everything I wish for her.
Mad World, by Gary Jules with Michael Andrews – It’s been a tough year for my family and me. Last week, we lost my step-mother (to whom I was very close) and tomorrow
will be the year anniversary of my sister-in-law’s death. It’s been a year of heartbreak and change. Never before has it been clearer that life is fleeting and precious. Through it all, I’ve realized how important it is to make the most of every moment we have with our loved ones, especially when life seems to spin at a mad pace. This song speaks to the shades of blue that have colored my life lately.
That’s Life by Frank Sinatra – Well, I can’t end this post on a downer. So, last, but not least, I wanted to share my theme song for my writing career. Actually, I guess it’s sort of my personal anthem. The lyrics are
self-explanatory: “You’re riding high in April, Shot down in May, but I know I’m gonna change that tune, when I’m back on top, back on top in June.” Doesn’t that just sum up a writer’s life?
What are some of the songs that would be on the sound track to your life?
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