Most of you know I was a nurse in my previous life. Intensive Care was my field, and I loved it. I loved the high “tech-ness” of it, and the adrenalin rush every day. It was incredibly rewarding to make a difference in the lives of my critically ill patients and their families. There is nothing that binds people together like a life and death situation. Back in those days, I also did some moonlighting in an outpatient clinic that took care of all sorts of patients – OB/GYN, plastic surgery, ophthalmology, general medicine and surgery – pretty much everything. It was interesting, but my true love was ICU.
A few years into my career, my dad got sick. He had his first heart attack, and back then, they were not doing coronary bypass surgery for his kind of MI. He was treated medically, and did pretty well for almost a year. Then he had another MI, and it was downhill from there. I lived in my own apartment by then, but I was summoned to my parents’ house at least once or twice a week to check on Dad. He developed complications and got to the point where there wasn’t anything more to be done for him, short of a heart transplant. And they weren’t doing many of those back then. (Wow – I sound pretty ancient, don’t I?)
My dad’s last hospitalization lasted about 36 hours. His cardiologist gave him (and us) the option of putting him in ICU (with all the IV lines, tubes and monitors) but he said the outcome was extremely unlikely to be good. The other option was to admit him to a private room where we (my mom and siblings) could stay with him for the duration. Dad took Option 2. We were all with him when he passed away. My four siblings and I were all in our 20s. My mom was 56.
I burned out of nursing shortly after that. Turns out, the experience with my dad – watching him struggle for breath, seeing his EKG monitor doing all kinds of things it shouldn’t, noticing the veiled awareness of doom in his eyes – was something I experienced almost every day at work. And I found I couldn’t do it any more. I turned in my resignation and figured I’d have to find something else to do.
My supervisor refused to take my resignation (which turned out to be a really good thing for me!). She asked me to go into teaching in my hospital’s multiple ICUs – preparing and giving “in-service” classes on disease states, new medical treatments, and new technologies that were coming our way. I took her up on it, and at the same time, went back to college for another degree – something unrelated to science or nursing. History.
And that’s how I started on the path to writing historical romances. I actually went back to clinical nursing after about a year and a half, and still practiced nursing when I got married and had children. When my kids were young, I worked two or three afternoon shifts in the ICU every week, and after a long, tense shift, I would write to unwind – because it was impossible to go to sleep some nights after work. Somewhere along the line, somebody gave me a historical romance to read (I think it might
have been Shanna by Kathleen Woodiwiss) and so I found myself inspired to write a romance of my own. The history and the happy ending really appealed to me.
The rest is… history, as they say. My eighteenth novel, Seducing the Governess, just came out, and my nineteenth (Brazen) is a December 2011 release. Funny how things happen.
Has your life taken a twist or turn that you never expected? Tell me about it and I’ll choose one commenter to receive a copy of Wild, one of my recent books.
Have a great week, everyone – and Happy March tomorrow. Spring is on its way!



































































































Feb 28th
2011
9:11 am
Emily McKay Said:
I loved having that glimpse into your past, Margo. A few years ago, my mom was in the ICU for several days and we weren’t sure we was going to make. I’m not exaggerating when I say that the attentive care of one particular ICU nurse is what pulled her out. That woman came on to her shift, looked over mom’s chart and said, “Okay, we’re going to get her blood pressure down and get her out of this.” And she did. She paid attention, monitored everything and made the right recommendations to the doctors (who certainly weren’t negligent, but had so many other patients). I’ve never forgotten that woman. ICU nurses are amazing!!!
(But then again, so are romance writers!)
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Feb 28th
2011
12:15 pm
Quilt Lady Said:
When I was a child my mother was seriously injured and it left her crippled. Our lives changed drasticly after that and I have often wondered if things would have been different if that hadn’t happened.
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Feb 28th
2011
12:18 pm
Shana Said:
Margo, I never knew this about you. Love nurses! My mom is an RN. has my life taken an unexpected turn. Oh, yeah. Like about twenty. Still waiting to see how it turns out…
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Feb 28th
2011
12:56 pm
Kathryn in Montreal Said:
Both my sister-in-laws are nurses…I have so much respect for people who work in the nursing field, so many un-sung heroes (heroines).
Getting fired from one job opened a door to a job that I love and still do… sometimes you need a kick-start to try something you might otherwise let go by.
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Feb 28th
2011
1:03 pm
Chelsea B. Said:
I’ve always been an active person. Always wanted to work as a doctor or something equally as important. But when I was sixteen I started getting dizzy. Started passing out. I was diagnosed with Vasovagal Syncope– and I was no loger allowed or capable to be active. I’m not allowed to drive, work, or anything that has to do with being active, getting hot, or feeling scared. I was completely devastated, and not a little bit depressed. All I could think about were the things I would never get to do. But then…. Then the things I would never get to do started taking shape. Conversations started running through my mind. And before I knew it I was at my computer, writing the stories I would never get to live out. But it helped! And now I wonder…. Would I have found my love of writing if I had never been diagnosed? The world has a way, if not a twisted one, of leveling things out.
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Feb 28th
2011
1:20 pm
Margo Maguire Said:
Chelsea – how wonderful that you found a way to turn around your health issues. Fabulous.
And it’s so true, Kathryn – that you never know what’s around the corner. Losing a job might seem like bad news, but then something better or more interesting comes along! Wow.
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Feb 28th
2011
4:02 pm
catslady Said:
I wonder if anyone’s life ever ends up like they thought it would. I have learned to go with the flow because regretting the past doesn’t get you anywhere and prevents you from living the present. I think it’s wonderful that you went back to school and changed your entire career! My daughter is in crisis right now and it’s worse than when I had things happen to me. All we can do is be there for her and support her and let her know that the future can still be an amazing thing.
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Feb 28th
2011
4:40 pm
Kristan Higgins Said:
What a beautiful and poignant story, Margo! And what an unusual way to become a writer! Thanks for sharing that. It was really touching.
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Feb 28th
2011
5:46 pm
RobynDeHart Said:
I knew you’d been a nurse, but I’d never heard that story about your father. How difficult that must have been. My mother’s been having some health issues since late last year and it’s been trying. But I think she’s on the mend. I will say this though, I’m so thankful for good nurses, it is not a job I could have ever done.
My life has definitely taken surprising turns, how I met my husband and just who he is surprised me (all in a good way!) getting to move back to TX and to my home town, that was a huge and wonderful surprise. the biggest though for me has been my struggle with infertility, wasn’t expecting it, don’t guess anyone ever does, but I suspect in the end we’ll find some blessings in this whole mess.
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Feb 28th
2011
8:51 pm
Barbara Elness Said:
I’d been working for the same company for over 38 years, even through several owners and a move to another state. I didn’t think I’d ever work anywhere else, but then I got laid off last summer. After six months, I finally landed a job with the City and I’m thrilled. I wish I had made a change a long time ago.
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Mar 1st
2011
5:57 pm
Catherine Kean Said:
Wow, Margo! What a fascinating story, and I’m so glad you found a love of writing historical romances to help you through those times after a difficult workday.
Congratulations on your upcoming 18th and 19th book releases! That’s fantastic.
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Mar 11th
2011
10:20 am
eap Said:
My life hasn’t out the way I thought it would.
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