“People often say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and I say that the most liberating thing about beauty is realizing that you are the beholder.”
— Salma Hayek
Since the audience for most romance novels is mainly women, I often think of our images of ourselves as key to my heroines. I started reading romance novels when I was 13 years old and I know that those books I read and the women in them in part shaped the woman I am today.
I knew that a woman should expect certain things from the man who loved her and she shouldn’t compromise herself to get him. And though in the media it is often said that heroines in romance novels are all beautiful, I think that is misconstrued. Everyone has a glow about them when they are in love and it makes them more beautiful to anyone who sees them.
Finding beauty in us is harder and harder all the time. The media spends a lot of time showing images of “Hollywood” beauty both in image and in size and yet seldom does that reflect the reality of people I see every day.
I strive to make the women in my books real, with issues that make them more human and after reading this quote I realized how much power we have over ourselves. I hope that whenever you go you feel out you realize that you are beautiful.
Happy reading!
Katherine



































































































Aug 10th
2010
8:53 am
Margo Maguire Said:
Nice post, Kathy! Hey – is this the month you’re featured in Cosmo magazine? I’ve got to get a copy before they’re all gone!
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Aug 10th
2010
9:58 am
Shana Said:
Such a great post. Today it’s so hard for girls growing up to believe they are beautiful. I never know if my heroines are beautiful or not. Well, I think I have one who was truly beautiful pretty much by all standards. But the others aren’t so beautiful, it’s just that the hero sees her that way.
Margo, I got the Cosmo. The excerpt is awesome1
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Aug 10th
2010
10:12 am
Kristan Higgins Said:
Great message, Katherine! I’m like you…the emotional beauty matters a lot more than the physical kind. I think the emerald-eyed, raven-haired heroines of the old romances are pretty much done; writers today seem to focus on character a heck of a lot more. And as the mother of an extremely pretty girl, I always try to emphasize that actions convey beauty a lot more powerfully than anything on the outside ever could. Thanks for the great post!
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Aug 10th
2010
12:46 pm
Kathryn in Montreal Said:
I agree with Kristan, the standard of beauty for the romance heroine has changed (and for the better). This was very well conveyed by Julia Quinn in one of the books from her Bridgerton series where Colin Bridgerton falls in love with Penelope Featherington and subsequently embraces her whole self… flaws and all.
Women today are bombarded from all sides with impossible standards for beauty. We shouldn’t have to deal with it in a book we are enjoying.
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Aug 10th
2010
1:38 pm
Mary M Said:
When I saw the Ann Taylor photoshopped model who was already thin but made thinner, I thought how unrealistic! Beautiful and timely post. I’m going to look for Cosmo today. Congratulations!
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Aug 11th
2010
1:13 am
Christina Hollis Said:
It’s when you become a mother that you really realise how much influence airbrushing and peer pressure can have.
Thanks for this sensible post, Katherine.
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Aug 11th
2010
11:15 am
Paula R. Said:
Katherine, great post. I too look for the inner beauty in people. I strive to write charactes, both male and female, who are beautiful and real to readers. If I can capture that aspect of my characters on the page, then I think readers will have a much better appreciation for them and their story.
Peace and love,
Paula R.
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