We’ve been talking about Spring Fever this month, but I decided to talk more about the fever part of that, rather than the spring.
I’ve noticed a trend lately in romances, and I want to get some opinions on it. It seems like every time I turn around, I’m looking at a romance where the hero and heroine are “destined” to be together. This seems to be the case in a lot of paranormal romances in particular. The man just knows this particular woman is destined to become his mate and he has to convince her. Or in the case of some of the paranormal YA’s I’ve read, he knows they’re destined to be together, but resents her for it so he treats her badly for most of the book. (How healthy is that?)
Maybe Twilight is to blame. Maybe some woman just like the idea of a man loving them for no particular reason. Me, I like a romance that develops as the characters get to know each other. Slowly. Out of mutual appreciation of each other’s qualities, both good and bad.
Yes, love should make you feverish, but if it’s just some kind of fever that over comes you, then how do you know it won’t go away if your guy just takes a couple of aspirin?
What do you think? Are you a fan of the “I love you ’cause it’s my destiny?” Are there any books where you think it really works?
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Apr 5th
2010
7:52 am
Shana Said:
I can’t think of any I love. I agree with you, Emily. I like the romance to develop as they get to know one another. But I’d love to hear what others have to say and add to my TBR pile.
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Apr 5th
2010
7:53 am
kristan higgins Said:
I’m with you, Emily! There has to be a reason to love someone (hopefully, many reasons)…the “Because we were preordained” works in some situations, but they’re not my favorite type.
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Apr 5th
2010
8:32 am
Margo Maguire Said:
Hmmm… I can’t think of any, probably because I haven’t read any paranormals lately. But no – I don’t generally like that “preordained” kind of romance. I want to see the relationship evolve and develop, based on some real characteristics of the h & h.
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Apr 5th
2010
8:54 pm
KathrynSmith Said:
Emily, that plot only works for me if there are obstacles to overcome before that destiny can be reached. I’m not taking a swipe at anyone’s choice of plot, but it can be a device that makes the author look lazy if it’s not done properly — sort of a “I don’t need to build a relationship — they’re destined for each other!”.
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Apr 5th
2010
10:53 pm
RobynDeHart Said:
Yeah, I’m not a big fan of that storyline at all. One of the main reasons I’m not a Twilight fan, just doesn’t work for me. I can understand why it would work for teenage girls the world over though. But in grown-up romance, no thanks. Just not enough meat for me. And it takes away my favorite part, watching the couple fall in love…sigh.
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