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Could you date a man who didn’t like animals?

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I know some great people who don’t particularly care for animals.

Okay, now that we have that out of the way, I have to say that I could never date or marry someone who wasn’t a big animal lover. My husband and I both love animals. We currently have four–two dogs and two cats. We didn’t go out looking for any of them. They came looking for us.

The shih tzu had been our daughter’s dog. But he got into a fight with her other dog and his eye popped out. That eye is now back in place, but blind. The vet said he couldn’t go home because he was at higher risk for it to happen again.

The blue heeler was a stray that someone dumped in the country and found his way to our home.

Our female cat had been placed in a dumpster on a hot summer day when she was only four weeks old. A friend rescued her and asked if we’d take her. (When you live in the country, everyone wants to give you their animals)

Our most recent addition, a male kitty who escaped from a neighbor’s farm. He came to us with ear mites, worms, and a serious eye infection.

No, we didn’t want four animals…one or two would have been okay…but these are not animals that would have been easily adoptible….and we couldn’t turn them away.

I am so grateful that my husband and I are on the same page concerning their care. Money isn’t an object if they need something.

I’m curious, could you date a man who didn’t like animals?

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  1. Emmanuelle Said:

    I know I couldn’t ! Indiderent would pass but one who disliked animals000 No way !! ;-)
    Love the dog picture… if a guy can’t see the beauty of it, then he’s just not for me :cool:
    Have a nice week-end everyone. Here in France we have so much snow I’ll be cocooning all week-end…

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    • Emmanuelle Said:

      I meant indiferent of course !

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  2. Laura Said:

    I can respect someone who doesn’t like animals, if they’re up front about it and don’t try to pretend they do like animals because they know you do. But, to answer your question, I could never date or be serious with someone who didn’t love animals as much as I do.

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  3. Emily McKay Said:

    My husband loves animals and I think we’ll always have pets, but our attitudes about them are completely different. He grew up on a farm. I grew up in the suburbs, where pets are like family. He has this very farm boy attitude about pets.
    But I don’t think I could be with a man who didn’t like animals at all. Or–yikes!–was mean to them.

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  4. eap Said:

    It would be a dealbreaker defintely.

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  5. Deb H. Said:

    I’m indifferent, I guess, to animals; I like puppies and kittens. I don’t have a great love for animals, but respect people who do. (We do have a Yorkie named Bear.) My husband does like dogs, but if he didn’t, that wouldn’t have turned me off from pursuing our relationship.

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  6. Rebekah E. Said:

    I think it wouldn’t work. I love animals and so does my husband. I would be to hard to live in a house were one likes them and the other doesn’t.

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  7. Stephanie Draven Said:

    I think to have a successful marriage you have to share certain core values. A basic love of small furry animals has to be one of those. ;)

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  8. RobynDeHart Said:

    Nope, couldn’t do it. Love me, love my cats. So it was more specific than animal lover, I needed a man who could and would love my cats – well at the time it was just one cat. Then The Professor found our other kitty to rescue, sigh, that’s love.

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  9. Janette Kenny Said:

    Nope, tried it once and that relationship didn’t last long.

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  10. Margo Maguire Said:

    My husband and I both like animals, but I think we could live without them. We went through at least a 10-year “pet-less” phase and everything was just fine! Now we have more animals than I would like (2 cats and 2 BIG dogs)… but I wouldn’t get rid of any of them just for convenience. They’re part of the family!

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  11. catslady Said:

    Absolutely not. I know women like that and I don’t care for them either. At the moment I have 6 cats – all strays/ferals. Had two dogs and I care for outside ferals. I was always afraid to say I wanted to take another one in but my husband would be there first :) I think I love him for that more than anything!!!

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  12. Shana Said:

    No way! I would wonder what’s wrong with him.

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  13. MJ Said:

    No! My friend Cindi’s dh is not a fan of animals, and I could not deal. My dh is as much of a cat person as I am, and so is my son.

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  14. ladydawgfan Said:

    I was raised with pets – cats, birds, fish, and my sisters have had dogs as well as they have been married. I could not date or enter a relationship with someone who did not love animals as I do. I expect to have pets in the house. They will be part of the family, and anyone who disagrees can depart the premises.

    Sorry, but those are the rules!!

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  15. Tonya Kappes Said:

    I had my response just reading the title of your blog before I read the blog. NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!
    Luckily my DH and children love animals. I know and like people who don’t like animals and they are nice, but I have to have animals in my home life. There’s something about caring and nuturing something other than yourself. :mrgreen:

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  16. Lily Said:

    He doesn’t have to love cats (I don’t), but dogs? Definitely yes!

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  17. Mary M Said:

    Never!

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  18. Cindy Kirk Said:

    Thanks for all the great comments.

    I think Mary M answered the question for the majority of us….NEVER.

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