This summer I went on vacation with my kids, my parents, my sister and her family and my boyfriend. It was an interesting mix of people and a fun trip. We camped in Yosemite for a week and for someone more accustomed to room service than roughing it…well, let’s just say it took a little getting used to.
But the scenery was beautiful and I wrote my April 2010 Desire sitting by a high-mountain alpine lake in Yosemite. It was exquisite.
But the high point of my trip was when we visited Rainbow Pools. At Rainbow Pools there is an outcropping of rocks that kids and daredevils jump from into the pool. I’m not good with numbers so I can’t tell you how high up I was but it was higher than the highest diving board at the community pool!
My nephew who is a daredevil had been teasing my kids with the fact that he always jumps and telling them if they weren’t cowards they would do it too. My daughter who his four years older than the daredevil wanted to do it and my son who is the daredevils age was pondering it too.
But when we got there it was high and my daughter spent twenty minutes sitting up on the rock thinking about jumping. My son took the plunge from the lower portion of the rock and my 69 year old father did the same. But my daughter was just sitting there.
I was encouraging her from my safe post at the bottom of the rocks and she looked over at me and said, “I’ll do it if you do.”
Later she admitted she never thought I’d do it. To be honest I didn’t think I would either. But I’m a mom and I want my kids to try everything. And I knew my son wasn’t going to take this higher jump unless I did. So I said Okay!
I climbed up there and stood on the precipice and all the other people at the pools that day looked up at me and when I hesitated they started cheering me on. One mother said to me, it’s easier than childbirth–do it for mom’s everywhere. Do it so that kids know that dad’s aren’t the only ones who do this kind of thing!
And my legs started shaking and I honestly thought I would chicken-out. But then I looked back at my daughter and I wanted her to do this. I wanted her to know that trying the things that scare you sometimes bring the biggest reward so I took a deep breath, closed my eyes and stepped off the ledge.
It was exhilarating when I hit that icy cold pond. But the real thrill for me came when my daughter jumped a minute later and then my son. We all hugged each other in the pool and smiled at each other. We had done it.
What about you? Have you done anything that was scary and felt good about it?



























































































Oct 28th
2009
6:28 am
kristan higgins Said:
Yeah, Katherine! Loved reading that! Good for Mommy the Brave…I have a similar experience in that I’m terrified of swimming in the ocean (which kind of sucks, since we have a place on Cape Cod, and the ocean there is so beautiful). But I always go in, because I don’t want my kids to catch my fear. Same experience…shaky legs, pounding heart, constant scanning for sharks/jellyfish/mean seals. I always feel good after, but the time in the water is a bit terrifying.
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Oct 28th
2009
7:58 am
Margo Maguire Said:
Nope. I did my daring stuff when I was in my late teens and always looked back with a shudder. It’s amazing I’m alive today!
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Oct 28th
2009
8:46 am
EmilyMcKay Said:
I loved that story, Katherine! And I so love the idea of showing kids that Dads aren’t the only brave ones.
When I was a teacher, I took a great group of kids to the school district’s Ropes course. For one of the activities, I was paired up with a student. It was physically challenging *and* way up high. I never would have made it to the top if she could have done it without me. But because she needed me, I pushed on. I’m so glad I did!
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Oct 28th
2009
2:19 pm
RobynDeHart Said:
That’s amazing, Katherine! What a great mom you are. I don’t know if I would have been able to do that – I’m afraid of both heights and water. A couple of summers ago The Professor and I went to Niagra Falls which was breathtaking and terrifying all at the same time. The Professor talked me into going on the behind the falls tour and it was scary as hell, but also unforgettable and I’m so glad I did it. He, of course, helped me, held my hand and assured me the tunnel wasn’t going to collapse around us. I’m not sure I could do it again, but it was an awesome experience.
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Oct 28th
2009
2:31 pm
Margo Maguire Said:
Now that you mention Niagra Falls, Robyn — I guess Mammoth Cave was kind of the same for me. I didn’t like being so far underground, or climbing up those steep ladders to get up to higher levels. And the pitch black? Ew – creepy. But my kids were all doing it, and I wasn’t about to miss out. (The crowd in the cave even sang happy birthday to my middle son who turned 6 that day!)
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Oct 28th
2009
4:21 pm
catslady Said:
Scary rollercoasters. I never seem to be able to do the very tallest but each year it seems they build one taller so I eventually end up going on the ones I had said no to the year before. We have convinced (not forced) our one daughter more than one time (not her favorite thing) but our youngest always goes on the biggest and fastest even if it’s by herself.
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Oct 28th
2009
4:57 pm
Shana Said:
I wrote a book…
Actually, I’m kind of like Margo in that I freaked out at Mammoth Cave. I just about hyperventilated. But after the first tour I went back for another. I wasn’t going to let fear keep me from seeing it.
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