I always get fooled. Each year, round about August, a particular office supply store’s TV commercial has me running to the TV to yell “It can’t possibly be CHRISTMAS yet!” Yes, it’s that one with the two children moping along behind their dad who is dancing through the aisles grabbing school supplies and tossing them blissfully into the basket as Andy Williams proclaims “it’s the most wonderful time of the year….”
Then, I hold desperately onto September because October means. . . Christmas! Yes it does! Look at the stores–the Halloween candy is barely on the shelves in the grocery stores when a little spot begins next to it for Thanksgiving decorations. Before Halloween has passed, Christmas decorations have grown, taking the full stage by mid-November.
And there’s radio stations. In the Philadelphia area where I live, one radio station goes all-Christmas music by mid-November. They’ve already announced it, reminding listeners to be ready! Others will join them right after Thanksgiving playing only holiday tunes. As someone who works in an office where Christmas is not celebrated, it becomes a real task to find music that isn’t about winter, trees, presents, Santa, etc.
It’s not that I don’t like Christmas….it’s just that I like to celebrate it at Christmas time and I like to savor those special days of family and visiting and presents. I think when they’re spread out and begin in early October and last for nearly three months, they lose a bit of that specialness.
So, I fight it! When my sister tells me in October that she’s halfway done her Christmas shopping, I give her my best cold glare and change the subject. When she announces at Thanksgiving dinner that her Christmas cards are in the mail, I tell her I won’t open it until December.
Then, in early December, I let loose–shopping and writing cards and wrapping and cooking and preparing for it. And celebrating… Or I end up writing on a deadline-mania-binge and end up beginning my Christmas prep in mid-December! LOL!
This year will be no different I’m sure – but I’ve already bought a couple romances that are Christmas-themed. I’ll put them aside, waiting for the right time. And soon, too soon if you ask me, it will be that right time.
Do you begin Holiday preparation sooner or later? Do you like to hear Christmas music in November? Or are you like me, trying to hold it all back until the calendar tells us it’s actually Christmas?
Terri is awaiting the release of her first BRAVA historical romance, A STORM OF PASSION, which will hit the shelves late next month. She’s just finished writing a novella which will be featured in a May 2010 anthology along with Susan Johnson and Mary Wine. For more info, visit her website and join her email newsletter list – www.terribrisbin.com



























































































Oct 9th
2009
8:30 am
Emily McKay Said:
Personally, I love getting my Christmas shopping done early. Best Christmas I ever had was the year I was hugely pregnant so I do all my shopping by the end of October. It was so nice to just coast and decorate after Thanksgiving. That’s my goal for this year too. So far I’ve done my parents and thats it. Yikes. Need to get shopping!
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Oct 9th
2009
8:30 am
Anne Carrole Said:
I try to hold back because I don’t like seeing Christmas things in October but I admit, I start decorating the day after Thanksgiving–I can’t wait any longer than that.
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Oct 9th
2009
11:23 am
Margo Maguire Said:
I agree that the whole thing gets too diluted if it starts too early. And do I ever get sick of holiday music! But I *do* like having the Halloween-time reminders to get moving on Christmas shopping. No earlier, though!
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Oct 9th
2009
11:30 am
Shana Said:
How can I think about Christmas? It was 94 degrees here yesterday. I can’t think about Christmas until I’m not wearing shorts.
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Oct 9th
2009
11:58 am
smile0303 Said:
I have already started Christmas shopping because my second job is retail and I know if I wait til December I am not going to want to shop on my day off.
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Oct 9th
2009
4:08 pm
kristan higgins Said:
I’m like you, Terri…I insist on waiting till the second week of December to start anything. Then I’m basically Mrs. Claus…baking cookies, making gingerbread, shopping, decorating.
There’s a radio station around here with the call number 107.9. So they do 108 days of Christmas…which is a third of an entire year. Pray for me!
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Oct 9th
2009
6:36 pm
Janette Kenny Said:
I am driven to get the decorations up the day after Thanksgiving, and I’ve been know to put the tree up Thanksgiving Eve. Back when I was organized (pre-writing) I’d have my gifts mainly bought and a lot of Christmas goodies baked. Now I live in the frenzy zone of deadlines and shopping mania, lol.
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Oct 9th
2009
7:07 pm
eap Said:
I do Christmas shopping in late October (Online only) so everything gets to me by mid-November Other then that, I don’t want to hear anything Christmasy unil December but early shopping allows for a no-stress holiday for me.
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Oct 17th
2009
7:33 pm
mimi Said:
I absolutely LOATHE seeing Christmas *anything* before Hallowe’en. I have been known to embarass my children and frighten Mega-lo-Mart employees by howling my displeasure at a Christmas tree display set up by, oh, say, September 29. I’m not even a fan of Christmas stuff before we’re all staggering around the house in a tryptophan-induced stupor after Thanksgiving dinner and the requisite football.
Christmas is special, but it becomes less so when it’s plastered all over everywhere before you’ve even put the pumpkin on the stoop.
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