The Jaunty Quills’s would like to welcome one of our favorite authors–Jacquie D’Alessandro.

Jacquie writes Regency-era historical romances and contemporary romantic comedies–two very different types of books, but both contain her favorite elements of love, romance, and laughter.
And we’re very excited to announce that Jacquie has come bearing gifts! She’s going to draw TWO winners from those who comment on her blog. Each winner will get signed copies of her first two Mayhem in Mayfair books–Sleepless at Midnight and Confessions at Midnight!!
Last week I was having what I call a Bad Snow White Day. I felt Frumpy, Lumpy, Dumpy, Bumpy, Schlumpy, Clumpy, and Grumpy. The writing wasn’t going well (a lot of staring at a blank screen with characters who refuse to talk to me), it was a hair day from hell (horrifying bed head combined static cling), and even my rattiest sweat pants felt tight. I needed a cure—and quick. There was only one way to climb out of the deep hole I was standing in. Call a Girlfriend.
When I did, I found out her day was going considerably better than mine—she only felt Frumpy and little Lumpy (too much chocolate the night before—I could relate). We chatted for about ten minutes, laughed, commiserated, and at the end of the call we both felt better. I still looked like hell (sadly, phone calls cannot cure static bed head), but I no longer felt Grumpy. She saved the day. As girlfriends just seem to do.
I’m in a small book club with some girlfriends—there are only five of us—and I greatly look forward to our monthly meetings. We normally only spend a few minutes discussing the book, then the rest of the time we drink wine, eat desserts, and catch up on each others’ lives. I always leave our meetings smiling and feeling rejuvenated and renewed. I have other girlfriends who, due to geography, I rarely see, but we keep up a steady stream of e-mails and phone calls. People often ask me if my stories are based on my real life experiences and I have to admit parts of my life have become fodder for scenes. But I realized that my girlfriends have had a huge impact on my writing. Not because I’m writing about them (usually J), but because they inspire me.
A couple of years ago I went on a book tour with 14 other writers. We had a blast, and I ended up girl bonding with two of the other authors. I’d been acquainted with them in the past, but we hadn’t had the opportunity to get to know each other well. Our friendship bloomed into a collaboration and after asking a fourth author to join us, we published an anthology together (It Happened One Night, Avon, October 2008). When the book hit the New York Times list, the four of us celebrated with cyber champagne (because we live in Atlanta, Australia, Canada, and Minnesota!).
Girlfriends also inspired my Regency-era historical Mayhem in Mayfair series which revolves around four young women who form a book club. They call themselves the Ladies Literary Society of London, but they aren’t reading the classics (those naughty girls!) which leads to all sorts of adventures and romance. So my girlfriends play an important role not only in my personal life, but my writing life as well. We lend each other moral support, make each other laugh, and are just good for each others’ soul. And that’s the way it should be. Because girls not only want to have fun, we deserve to have fun! And hey—next time you’re having a Bad Snow White Day, know you’re not alone. I’m still on deadline and therefore looking like something the Big Bad Wolf hacked up (different fairy tale, but you get the picture J).
So, tell me about your BFF—how long have you known each other and what do you enjoy doing together? How have you inspired each other? What interests do you share? And if you haven’t gotten in touch with her yet today, take a minute to do so and tell her you love her.



















































Nov 22nd
2008
9:30 am
Kristan Higgins Said:
Hi, Jacquie! My best friend and I met freshmen year in college, and though we lived far away after college, our lives took weirdly parallel routes, almost as if we were identical twins…we’d break up with our boyfriends the same weekend…got engaged very quickly after meeting our future husbands…had the same job issues…had kids at the same time. Though she lives on the other side of the earth, there’s still such a bond between us. And thank goodness for e-mail!
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Nov 22nd
2008
10:14 am
Emily McKay Said:
Hi Jacquie! thanks for visiting with us.
I agree, girlfriends make life so much easier! Especially those Bad Snow White days. LOL! I’m definitely having one of those. I’m knee deep in revisions, my husband has been working 16 hour days this week, and my kid is sick. That makes for lots of grumpiness.
I think when this all passes, I’ll need a day off with some girlfriends!
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Nov 22nd
2008
10:40 am
Jacquie D Said:
Hi Kristan:
Wow–I’m having a total fangirl moment here. I LOVE your books! All three are on my keeper shelf. I told my mom how great they were and she wanted to borrow them, but I knew she’d want them on her keeper shelf, so I bought her her own copies. I finished Just One of the Guys about a month ago and can’t wait for your next release. Your RITA win was very well deserved–congrats! Please write faster!
And now back to the blog–very strange yet cool about your parallel life with your friend! I agree–thank goodness for e-mail. I just signed up for Facebook (as in like yesterday!) and I’ve already managed to connect with a girl I went to KINDERGARTEN with! How cool is that?!
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Nov 22nd
2008
10:43 am
Jacquie D Said:
Hey Emily:
Great to “see” you!
Sending much sympathy on the revisions/hubby at work/home alone with sick kid scenario. See–your girlfriends understand! When the dust settles you gals should head out for dinner and a movie. Good luck with the revisions–may they pass quickly! xox
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Nov 22nd
2008
11:36 am
cheryl c. Said:
Oh, I am SO bad!:oops:
I am terrible about keeping in touch with my girlfriends! I get busy and just don’t take the time. I resolve to do better!!!
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Nov 22nd
2008
12:11 pm
Lois Said:
Oh my gosh, here’s my fangirly moment, I just love your books!
I have all your historicals, which is how I got introduced to you, plus your contemporaries and I’m certainly hoping to get the Christmas anthology next month!
As for friends, well, back in high school I think my only real experience that I could probably use for writing if I were a writer is the one friend I refer to my very ex-friend. She was nuts! LOL
Lois
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Nov 22nd
2008
1:35 pm
catslady Said:
Historicals are my favorite but I always like some humor in my reading which sounds like your books have! I have one BFF that I met slightly in a women’s club but then our children were in girl scouts together. Our children are now grown and although they were best friends too, they currently are going different ways but us moms stayed BFF. We belong to a card club and a bowling league and shop of course or just to talk but our biggest vice is getting away to a casino once in a while lol.
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Nov 22nd
2008
1:37 pm
Jacquie D Said:
Good for you, Cheryl. It’s so easy to lose contact with people we don’t see every day. I think women especially have to make more of an effort because we tend to put ourselves aside in favor of everything and everyone else. Reach out and get in touch with someone–I’m betting they’ll be thrilled to hear from you!
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Nov 22nd
2008
1:42 pm
Jacquie D Said:
Hi Lois! Thank you so much–I’m delighted you’ve enjoyed my books! There are actually TWO anthologies coming out next month–A Harlequin Blaze antho entitled Heating Up the Holidays, and a trade paperback from Berkley entitled Double the Pleasure (which, even though it’s coming out in December isn’t a Christmas themed book).
LOL on your ex-friend from high school. I have to admit that I’ve named several bad guys/gals in my books after people who were mean to me in high school (first names only). Heh, heh, heh
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Nov 22nd
2008
2:12 pm
Jane Said:
Hi Jacquie,
Nathan and Colin are two of my all time favorite heroes. I met my BFF during job training. Even though we ended up working at different sites, we continued to hang out. She moved to another state and now I only see her once a year, but I talk to her fives times a week. We like to gossip about old acquaintances and chat about celebrities and home life.
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Nov 22nd
2008
7:20 pm
Lori Ann Said:
Hi Jacquie,
I just wanted to take this opportunity to tell you that I love your books. You are a master at creating witty dialogue between your characters. I’m so happy that the release date for Seduced at Midnight is coming up in a few months.
My best friend and I have known each other since we attended middle school together. We even attended the same college. Now that we are a little older, we try to talk to each other at least once a week. We have children around the same age, so we bond over that. We have the same taste in movies and share a love of reading.
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Nov 22nd
2008
7:27 pm
Jacquie D Said:
Hi Jane:
Thanks for the kind words re Colin and Nathan. I really enjoyed writing those brothers.
Isn’t it awful when your buds move to another state?!? It’s so wrenching. So happy to hear you and your now out-of-state BFF keep in touch so regularly. I chuckled when you wrote that you chat about celebs–one of my friends and I do that alot, and another one of my buds knows NOTHING about celebs, to the point where it’s hysterical. I’ll mention Nicole Richie and she’s like, “Who?” We love to tease her. I save all my Enquirers and People magazines and tell her she needs to catch up on her “important” reading.
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Nov 22nd
2008
7:29 pm
Jacquie D Said:
Hi Lori Ann:
Thanks for lovely words about my books! I’m blushing!
Your relationship with your BFF sounds lovely. It’s really nice when your friends’ kids are around the same age as your kids–just adds another layer to the closeness.
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Nov 22nd
2008
10:24 pm
Mary M Said:
My BFF and I live six thousand miles apart now as she resides abroad. We can go for weeks without talking and then talk for two minutes and it’s as if we talked the day before. We were college roommates. I think one of the best things about great girlfriends is simply feeling understood.
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Nov 23rd
2008
4:04 pm
Jacquie D Said:
Hi Mary:
Isn’t that the greatest feeling–that you can go for a stretch of time without talking then pick up as if no time has passed?! Nothing can replace that feeling of being understood.
xox Jacquie
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Nov 23rd
2008
4:59 pm
Jen Said:
My BFF got me involved with romance novels! We have been friends since college, when we met. We couldn’t stand each other at first, but when our forced confinement ended, we realized we wanted to see each other again. This winter, I am going to be a bridesmaid in her wedding!
By the way, I just read Love and the Single Heiress, and swoon! I loved it!
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Nov 23rd
2008
5:21 pm
Crystal B. Said:
My best friend is my cousin. We have been close since we were children. We like to have girls day out and to talk about books we enjoy. We are avid readers and can spend hours in bookstores.
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Nov 23rd
2008
10:43 pm
Jacquie D Said:
Hi Jen: Any friend who got you hooked on romance novels is a good friend indeed! Enjoy the wedding! And so glad you enjoyed Love and the Single Heiress! I’m writing Genevieve Ralston’s story now–it’s entitled Touch Me and will come out in October 2009 as a historical for Harlequin Blaze.
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Nov 23rd
2008
10:44 pm
Jacquie D Said:
Hey Crystal”
How wonderful that your BFF is also a relative! Gotta love spending hours in the bookstore together. What a blissful way to spend the day!
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Nov 24th
2008
5:33 pm
Fedora Said:
Hi, Jacquie! I’ve read and loved a bunch of your contemporaries but still haven’t read your historicals
As for girlfriends, I’m blessed to have several dear ones–it’s terrific to be able to call or e-mail just to vent or share something exciting
My very best friend is my sister though, and we’ve been swapping everything from clothes to books for years!
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Nov 24th
2008
7:26 pm
Kristan Higgins Said:
Hi again, Jacqui! Just wanted to say thanks for the lovely words of praise. And right back at you!
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