So here’s the cover of my October book.
No, this post isn’t about my book. At least not yet. Just keep reading to the end. Then you’ll see why I’m shamelessly promoting myself.
A couple of weekends ago, I lost my girl in Babies R Us. She was only out of my sight for maybe five minutes total. One second, she was by my side while I thumbed through a rack of PJ’s. The next she was gone. As soon as I realized she was gone, I sent hubby to the front of the store to make sure no one left with her. I notified a store employee. I searched in ever-widening circles, calling out her name.
I barely kept a rein on my panic. My heart was thundering. My throat tight. My imagination had taken flight. In my mind, she hadn’t just wandered off. She’d been snatched. We’d never find her. She was already being hustled out the back of the store and into a car. Her fate was unthinkable.
I lived a lifetime of sorrow and remorse in those few minutes. And then I found her, sitting on the ground, behind an aisle of toys, humming to herself, not ten feet from where I’d been. She was safe. She was fine. Never in any danger. But in those briefs minutes she’d been missing, my imagination had complete control of my mind and my body.
It’s a powerful thing, we have, this ability to transport ourselves with our minds. And it’s not just in our minds either. Our bodies have physiologically responses to what our minds imagine. It’s an amazing thing when you think about it. It’s what separates us from every other creature on earth. At least as far as we know, no one but humans can imagine.
That day at Babies R Us, I cursed my vivid imagination. My morning would have been much more relaxing if I’d been able to calmly search the store for my missing daughter until I found her. No fear. No panic. No tears or nausea. But most days, I’m profoundly thankful for my imagination.
It’s what gives me the ability to write books. More importantly, it’s what makes reading books pleasurable. It’s the difference a book conveying information and transporting you to another world. And,frankly there’s nothing else like it in the world. Movies and TV entertain and amuse, but they don’t engage the imagination in quite the same way. That’s what makes books so special.
And now, here’s an awkward segue back to my book ….
Come October my new book, Baby Benefits, will be released by Silhouette Desire. Since it’s the sequel to my April book, Baby on the Billionaire’s Doorstep, I’ll be giving away a copy of that to one of the people who responds to today’s post.
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Sep 25th
2008
9:04 am
Shana Galen Said:
Um…let’s see 10 minutes ago? I am the queen of imagining the worst-case scenario. I play what-ifs over in my mind all the time. I like to have an A, B, and C plan. (Sometimes even a D and E). My life would be so much more relaxing if I would just think positive thoughts!
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Sep 25th
2008
9:12 am
Lee Said:
Almost the same thing happened to me with my grandson…I lost him for a couple seconds in a store and went into panic mod. I’m retired from law enforcement and had seen the worst side of life, so my imgination was alive, very active as I too tried to keep calm. I found him safe and sound, looking at a book. We went home I was exhausted after those terrifying moments.
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Sep 25th
2008
9:15 am
RobynDeHart Said:
Shoot, my imagination went off when you called to tell me about this situation and I already knew she was safe.
I also have these terrible thoughts when I’m trying to get to sleep at night, especially if The Professor has already nodded off – then I think of truly awful things about people breaking in and hurting my cats and us and ugggg…it certainly makes falling asleep difficult.
I remember as a child I used to think people broke into the house and killed my parents. I do realize I’m not okay.
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Sep 25th
2008
9:17 am
Devon Ellington Said:
Your imagination gave you the tools to take action necessary to protect your daughter. I happen to think it’s a good thing. You didn’t just break into hysterics and expect everyone else to do everything FOR you. YOU went around, thumbing through possible scenarios, and coming up with solutions.
And you found your daughter safe.
The ability that helps you create books that connect with readers also gives you the tools to function when life brings you drama.
That’s a positive. You’re active, not passive. I bet your books are active rather than passive, too, and that’s why you connect with people.
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Sep 25th
2008
11:56 am
catslady Said:
Oh I agree with what Devon just said.
I inherited a very active worry gene from my parents who were both very extreme as to all the horrible things that could happen. I’m seriously trying to change. Worrying does no good at all except to make you crazy. Now having a plan of action (like you did) is perfectly fine. And since I’m not a writer, I don’t need all that active imagination lol. I need more sleep instead.
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Sep 25th
2008
12:23 pm
cheryl c. Said:
Just this morning, worry fueled my imagination. My son who is 25 took a flight to D.C. this morning, and I pictured his flight crashing in graphic detail. I had to push the tortuous images out of my mind. I guess a mother can’t help always worrying about her children, but I wish I didn’t have such a vivid imagination. By the way, he landed safety an hour ago. Now I just have to worry about the return trip!
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Sep 25th
2008
2:56 pm
Fedora Said:
Hmm… I think most of us parents have that active imagination thing in spades
It’s a good thing, for the most part–helps keep us on the alert
But as Catslady said, I’m not sure I actually need all that extra adrenaline pushing through my system–a nap does sound heavenly
Glad your little one was safe and sound! And congrats on Baby Benefits!
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Sep 25th
2008
3:17 pm
Teresa W. Said:
It seems my imagination always runs wild after watching a scary movie by myself. I always seem to hear the littlest sounds and noises that freak me out!
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Sep 25th
2008
3:39 pm
Rainy Said:
Worry is my middle name and when you have an overactive imagination, it only enables you to create one horrible possibility after another.
I went on one of my walks the other day and discovered I’d lost the extra key to our house I carried with me. Immediately, I imagined some unsavory character finding it and somehow finding his way to my house. Just how this character would know it was my house it belonged to and since he was so unsavory, why he wouldn’t just break in anyway if this was his intention…..who knows? But I immediately went for the drama.
Anyway, through incredible luck,I found the key two miles away from my house the next day. I actually decided to use my imagination in a good way and imagined me picking it up.
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Sep 25th
2008
5:56 pm
Kristan Higgins Said:
I dropped in on a friend and, when I found she wasn’t there, had no problems imagining her upstairs with The Killer, duct taped to a chair or something. I actually dialed 9-1 and had my thumb waiting over that last number. You know. Just in case I was right! When I found her (walking around the block), I didn’t hesitate to tell her I’d been quite prepared to save her life.
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Sep 25th
2008
6:33 pm
Jane Said:
I freak out when I’m flying on stand-by status and beginning worrying if I’ll get to the airport on time(even though I live about 3 hours in advance) and that I’ll be held up in security.
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Sep 25th
2008
8:30 pm
eap Said:
My imagination goes haywire when people are late…
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Sep 25th
2008
9:14 pm
EmilyMcKay Said:
Y’all are making me feel so better! At least, if I’m crazy, I’m not the only one.
Plus, this morning, I was terrified no one would want a free copy of my book enough to respond at all. So I’m glad people want the free book
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